Saturday, June 13, 2020

With A Humble Heart

These past many weeks have been difficult ones. We have been largely confined to our homes; social ties we have nurtured for years are under stress, if for no other reason than our inability to be in the presence of those we love and care about. Compounding our sense of helplessness, the racial ructions in the United States have confronted us with some unpleasant but oft-ignored truths. The public spectacle of George Floyd's murder caused deep anguish for all right-thinking people.

The fact that his murder was a spectacle made it easy to feel horror, outrage, and deep sadness. The hard part will be sustaining those reactions and demanding that constructive, structural changes be implemented. In that, we all have a role to play, and that role begins not with the shedding of more tears, but educating ourselves deeply about the daily truths people of color and other minorities confront.

And that takes work, and it takes commitment. In some of my forthcoming posts, I would like to share some of the things I have watched and some of the things I have read that may help bring us closer to a real understanding of, even some empathy for, the daily lives of others. I tried to do that recently in a post about black parents having "the talk' with their kids, as well as a followup post about former Argo player Orlando Bowen and his traumatic encounter with Peel undercover cops back in 2004. As well, I reposted on the murder of Emmett Till.

Below is something culled from NBC Nightly News. If you advance to the 18-minute mark, you will see a story about ow systemic racism affects both the physical and mental health of its victims, many of whom are collateral ones.



It would be both supremely arrogant and supremely naive to suggest that my small efforts can make a difference in the larger scheme of things. The real lesson here, for me, is to approach the learning with a humble heart, fully acknowledging that as a white person, I can never truly know what it is to be in the skin of another, but to make every effort to understand, to bear witness, and to support changes that will improve people's lives everywhere.



6 comments:

  1. .. Did you ever watch The Big Lebowski.. Lorne ?
    The final scene comes to mind.. re - you.. yes you...!

    You'll figure it out ..

    There's two characters..
    I do believe you're a blend of both..

    the salamanders have spoken.. !

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    1. Thank you, Sal. I saw the film years ago, but I don't remember it that well. I'll see if I can find it to check out the final scene.

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  2. Atticus Finch told Scout that one of the best tricks she could learn was to get inside another person's skin and walk around in it, Lorne. That's very hard to do. But he was right. We truly need to learn his lesson; and we need to learn it now.

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    1. Agreed, Owen. Time has run out; there can be no further delays.

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  3. The "little" we do, and what you do here, Lorne, can only be positive.

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    1. Thanks, Brian. We all have to do what we can.

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