With the news constant about Jeffrey Epstein's files and his many depravities, I decided to brace myself to read the following book:
A very brave book written by the late Virginia Giuffre, one of Epstein's most prominent and outspoken victims, it is a chronicle of the victimization of a vulnerable teen who grows up to be a resilient and dogged fighter for justice.
You probably know her as the one who blew the whistle on the former Prince Andrew who, it can be concluded with certainty, sexually abused her three times. In his abject cowardice, he has always denied the claims, despite this picture with Giuffre when she was about 17.
While Andrew consistently denied ever meeting her in a disastrous interview for the BBC, there is no doubt that both the picture (which he claimed was a fake) and Giuffre's assertions were true. Indeed, Andrew ultimately paid her a reported £12 million, strange for a man who claimed to be so grievously wronged.
However, the book goes far beyond the sensational headlines, weaving a narrative revealing Guiffre as a victim of sexual abuse at an early age by both her father and his friend. Virginia was a very damaged girl almost right from the beginning, making her relatively easy prey for the diabolical duo of Epstein and Ghislaine Maxwell, who was the former's chief procurer and now reposes in an almost-recreational prison. Indeed, Trump has not denied considering her for a pardon.
Virginia faced many difficulties in her life after Epstein, but she became much more than a victim. She married an Australian and had three children, to whom she was a loving mother. But her determined pursuit of justice, not just for herself but Epstein's many victims, cost her dearly. She had a number of health battles, perhaps the worst being a broken neck from a fall that left her in regular pain. Yet those physical struggles did not stop her.
Heroism is something we often equate with daring feats: people rushing into a burning buildings, pulling people out of crashed cars, putting themselves on the line for a belief, striking in the face of armed goons, standing up to those who would tear us down. Well, in my view, Virginia Guiffre's adult life was one of heroism; she never lost sight of the goal that justice is for all victims, not just the individual.
That battle, however, which she never flinched from, meant she had to constantly relive the trauma and the degradation of her abuse, often in front of a hostile world and the powerful of that world. But it not my purpose here to recount those battle, only to acknowledge the courage of a very fallible yet determined woman. And it is for that reason I think this book should be widely read. We can all benefit not just from seeing that heroism, but also examining our own souls and the times we might have thought of women as lesser human beings.
It is for that reason I think it would be particularly useful for young men and women to read it, even older teens who, in this world of readily accessible pornography, may often see girls as objects solely for their lust and pleasure. Young women could be particularly moved by bearing witness to Virginia's bravery and realize that self-respect is not just a quaint notion but a very realizable objective.
We have all seen the results of the #MeToo movement and the consciousness it has raised. Nobody's Girl is more than worthy addition to its efforts to change the course of society's relationship with its female members.
